BOU AVENUE
My 50th Birthday
My 50th Birthday was on 21 January 2018.
I had no great plans that day other than to eat a free breakfast at
Denny's and relax in town with my girlfriend, Zosia Zgolak. Not one
to squander a free day, Zosia proposed a visit to the National Music
Centre (NMC) in downtown Calgary followed by a stop at St. Albert the
Great Parish in McKenzie Towne to view a religious relic (more about this
later) and ending with a visit to a good friend of Zosia in Cranston.
This seemed like a reasonable way to spend a lazy Sunday, and I agreed to
her plan.
First off, we started the day with a hearty breakfast at Denny's near my
home before making our way downtown to the NMC. We first
participated in a guided tour which included some history of the NMC’s
construction and also showcased some of the building’s unique
architecture. We then attended a live pipe organ demonstration
which was both fascinating and entertaining. After the end of the
demonstration, we wandered through the NMC on our own and had a lot of
fun with the many interactive exhibits.
While we were touring the NMC, I received a call from my
friend, Scott Warner, asking if I wanted to drop by his place later to
watch the second of two football games which were being broadcast on TV
that day. Curiously, he told me to be at his place at 6:30 PM which was
odd since I knew that the second game started at 4:30 PM. As lazy Sundays
go, I did not give much thought to this minor discrepancy, and after
briefly conferring with Zosia, I confirmed with Scott that we would be at
his place by 6:30 PM.
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Sonny walks toward the NMC along 4th Street SE.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Strings from old pianos hang from the
ceiling in this corridor. Hooked up to solar panels on the
outside of the building, the strings hum when it is sunny outside.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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The person giving the pipe organ
demonstration is also currently the organist at the home games of the
Calgary Flames hockey team.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Rob McConnell and Maynard Ferguson are
two of Sonny's favourite jazz artists. |
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Zosia learns to play the piano by
following instructions on the TV monitor. |
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Sonny eschews using the instructional
video and just wants to strum the acoustic guitar.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Even with only one drumstick, Zosia is
a formidable drummer! Photo
courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny tries out the theremin.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sensors in this room track Zosia's
movements which then generate sounds while creating images on the
wall. |
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Zosia is kind of a trailblazer
herself...when she is hiking! |
After leaving the NMC, Zosia and I paid a visit to St. Albert
the Great Parish in southeast Calgary to try and catch a glimpse of the
severed right forearm of St. Francis Xavier. This religious relic was on
tour across Canada and just happened to be in Calgary on my birthday.
When St. Francis Xavier died in China in 1522, his body was temporarily
buried with lye in hopes of decomposing his flesh prior to transporting
his remains. When he was exhumed a few months later, surprisingly very
little of his flesh had decomposed. This was considered a miracle, and
his body was ultimately moved to its current resting place in Goa, India. St. Francis Xavier’s right forearm was removed in 1614 and brought to
Rome where it currently resides when it is not touring the world.
As expected, there was a long lineup of people waiting to view St.
Francis Xavier’s nearly 500-year old forearm when we arrived in the
mid-afternoon, and we joined one of two slow-moving queues which snaked
through the pews in the nave of the church before converging at the
crossing where the relic was situated. Zosia and I had been shuffling
slowly along the line for about an hour when an announcement was made
that the viewing would be temporarily halted in order for the forearm to
be repositioned for that evening’s mass. The authorities allowed the few
people at the front of the queues to complete the viewing, but
unfortunately the cut-off was right in front of Zosia and me! Had we stayed for the
mass, we could have kept our place in line and been the first ones up
once the viewing resumed in the evening. However, I was not too keen on
hanging around the church any longer, and we had also already made plans
to visit Zosia’s friend in Cranston followed by the football game at
Scott's place afterwards. Regretfully, we
walked out of the church without touching our St. Francis Xavier
postcards (which were given to us on our arrival) to the case containing
the forearm which would have turned the postcards into 3rd Class relics.
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St. Francis Xavier's forearm is
situated at the crossing of the church. |
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Outside St. Albert the Great Parish,
Zosia holds up her postcard which is only a "4th Class relic" at this
point because it did not touch the case containing St. Francis
Xavier's forearm. |
Leaving the church, Zosia and I next visited her Polish friend, Karolina
Filarecka, who lives in Cranston. While we were at Karolina's home, I
noticed that the second football game was already on TV as I had
expected. That plus the fact that Zosia changed into a dress before we
left tipped me off that perhaps there would be more going
on at Scott’s place than just a few of us watching the football game.
As we arrived at Scott’s house in Chaparral, I noticed an unusually large
number of cars parked in the neighbourhood, and as I parked my own car, I
noticed a beat-up Toyota 4Runner with duct tape on its front left
headlight pulling up right behind me. There is only one person I know
in this world who
drives such a distinctive vehicle--Rafal (Raff) Kazmierczak! Raff
sheepishly greeted me as we both got out of our cars, and that was the
moment I realized that there might be a big party waiting for me inside
Scott’s house. However, when we walked up to Scott’s front door and
opened it, I was completely surprised by what I saw.Two long rows of
people—all dressed as characters from the Star Wars franchise and each
one carrying a long cardboard staff—were lined up from the door to the
back of the house forming a human corridor. They were all repeatedly
chanting “Force Be With You” as I made my way through the corridor in
disbelief. At the end of the corridor was my mother, Grace Bou, who hugged and kissed
me to wish me a Happy Birthday. I was then given my own Star Wars costume
to change into and a lightsabre to “fight” (and defeat!) all the
characters along the corridor. Once all the mayhem had finished,
everyone settled in with lots of food and drinks and socializing.
Other highlights of the evening included a
limerick reading session, a group sing-along led by Marta Wojnarowska on
guitar, and the presentation of an Imperial Stormtrooper helmet–shaped
birthday cake which was made by a friend of Tracy Pick. Best of all
for me though was
seeing so many familiar faces of friends and family, both old and new.
Thanks go out to all the people who participated and made this such a
special evening for me. Thanks also go out to everyone for their generous
gifts, their birthday cards and greetings (including from those who were
unable to attend), and their creative limericks. A huge thank you goes to
Scott for generously hosting this massive party in his home (and also
donating his party suit to me!), and a very special thank you goes to the
crazy Polish girls—Anna Kowalska, Marta and Zosia—for conceiving and
organizing such an audacious and memorable event.
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The party guests prepare for Sonny's arrival.
Photo courtesy of Dorota Sokolowska |
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It is unclear whether the corridor
leads to the light side or the dark side.
Photo courtesy of Dorota Sokolowska |
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Dorota Sokolowska, Daniel Dufresne
and Aga Sokolowska look amazing as, respectively, Princess Leia,
Darth Vader, and an Imperial Stormtrooper.
Photo courtesy of Dorota
Sokolowska |
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Scott looks classy in his Stormtrooper "suit".
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Anna, Marta, Wendy Kadar, Sonny, Asieh
Ghodratabadi and Ali Shariat are in full partying mode.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny kisses Zosia to thank her for
the wonderful birthday.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Parry Loeffler, Sonny and Aga listen to some amusing limericks written
specifically for Sonny's birthday by various party guests.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny and Anna simultaneously kiss a
First Order Stormtrooper.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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While playing guitar, Marta leads a
sing-along of some songs with revised lyrics in honour of Sonny's
birthday.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny poses with his birthday cake beside Shelley Skelton and Scott Mair.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny shares some cake with his mom,
Grace.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
Posing for a group photo are (L to R) Aga, Dorota,
Marta, Grace, Sonny, Zosia, Rupa Srivastava, Tracy and Anna.
Photo courtesy of
Zosia Zgolak
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Zosia and Anna both take a bite off
the top of Sonny's "helmet".
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |
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Sonny sits with his big haul of
birthday cards and gifts.
Photo courtesy of Zosia Zgolak |